Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Oh The Questions

***Disclaimer! This post is in no way directed towards any one person in particular. It is just a general observation/plea!***

As a 25 year old women who has been married for almost a year and nine months,  you can imagine that we get asked about when we are going to be having kids ALL THE TIME! 

This is the absolute truth!
And every time we get asked this, I kind of want to scream. I get that everyone's situations are different and some people want kids right away. And more power to those people. If you know that that is what you want, then that is great. But that isn't what we want. Not right now anyway.

At this point in our marriage, we are enjoying being married. We are enjoying each others company. We like the fact that we can just decide to go do something on a whim and not have to worry about having to take care of a kid at the same time or trying to find a babysitter. We like that we can each go spend time with our friends and not have to decide who is staying home with the baby. And we like that we can take vacations together and just get away and spend some quality time. And for right now, we like it that way. 

At some point in the future we will decided when the time is right for us. Whether that be a year from now or three years from now, that is our decision. But until then, just relax people. I promise we will tell you when that time comes and it is right for us. But until then, please just let us breathe a little and let us live our lives as a happily married couple. 



  1. Please... we all know this post was directed at me. ;) Hehe

  2. And after you have one people will constantly ask when you are having another.

  3. HA! Add 10 years to your age and the question just does not stop!! We'll have kids when we're ready, ok?! Geez!


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